family planning propaganda

(photo by jaysieta)

Our process of creating the documentary film To and From: HIV AIDS in the Philippines, has us thinking critically about every aspect of human nature. It's pretty insane when you think about it: 1 choice can determine whether your life goes down path A or B. It can be any number of different scenarios:

(1) you have found the partner of your dreams. your compatibility is magnetic and you know this is the person you want to live the rest of your life with. you want kids and the whole family, but right now just isn't the right time for you and your partner, mentally or financially.

(2) you have a found a partner out of comfort and co dependency. you have no intentions of long-term with this partner, but for the time being, they fulfill your immediate needs.

(3) you have met a complete stranger. you've been out a couple times and the chemistry is decent. now this potential partner is putting on 'the moves'... is now the right time to be intimate?

Then comes the s-e-x. Yet, at times, our animal instincts have the ability turn off our consciousness. Sometimes we can forget, that this one decision can change the course of the rest of our lives. Whether it's to put on that condom to prevent from HIV or other STI's or whether it's to use birth control because you and your partner just aren't ready for a family yet, these are simple actions that can affect complex situations.

Lately, I've been in the company several young parents... observing their daily lives, how their daily thinking is in constant negotiations, and how much WORK it all is... this has been like family planning 101. I trip out at the fact that my moms had three children before she turned 25, I have no idea how she did it. I have no idea how any parent does it. Ya'll get blue ribbons in my book :)

And for those who aren't ready for the blue ribbons...
maybe the colorful rubbers will suffice?

MTV Viacom Screening of Mangosteen in NYC: Our Visual Diary

(our phenomenal event producer, Sarah Fulton, handles MTV/Viacom logistics before the screening.)


(Nissan-Infiniti supports Narra! From Nissan, Darryll Harrison Jr, lends a helping hand to 'To and From: HIV AIDS in the Philippines" producer Mary Jane San Buenaventura.)


(the red carpet entry way of the Paramount screening room in Times Square)


(PSA from Asian Pacific Islander Coalition on HIV AIDS [APICHA] plays)


(Mangosteen NYC premieres at the Paramount screening room in Times Square)


(Our Q & A panelists after the screening, answers questions from the audience)


(Mangosteen Co-Directors, Alzo Slade and Gregory Pacificar)


(Gregory Pacificar with the infamous Sophia Chang)


[The Narra screening team :) Darryll Harrsion (PR & Nissan Liaison), Mary Jane San Buenaventura (APAIT & producer of 'To and From: HIV AIDS in the Philippines"), Sarah Fulton (MTV Viacom & Event Producer), Mia C. Villanueva (Mangosteen Producer), Gregory Pacificar (Mangosteen Co Director), and Alzo Slade (Mangosteen Co Director.)]


(After the screening, folks still lingering)


(The women behind the event :)


(The view from Viacom... so ugly, right? haha)


(Thank you Viacom MTV for hosting us!)


(Nissan's Darryll Harrison is still thinking about the film)


(And out we go towards Times Square)

How to have that 'uncomfortable' conversation.

Yesterday, I brought up to the guy I'm crushing on, that 'awkward' conversation.
Well, it's what our peers, the media, churches and (some) of our famlies have labeled as 'awkward.' Now, within the HIV AIDS media work that we're doing, we're reconditioning our minds and hearts to recognize that this kind of conversation is normal. This kind of conversation SHOULD be normal, especially between two partners who have the potential to share intimacy whether it's physical or not.

Needless to say, the conversation went smoothly. After I had inquired about the last time he was tested for anything (STI's, HIV, etc), I must say that I had a better piece of mind. I informed him of how it's the standard to be tested every 6 months regardless of one's situation(s) and that this is a NORMAL habit.

It's safe to never make assumptions. Just because the person was "raised in a stable household," or claims to have only been with people who are "clean" does not make them immune to anything. All too often, I hear people say things like "I'm married now, I don't need to get tested," or "I know she's clean, I'm the only guy she's been with."
[insert LOUD buzzer sound here.]

Although these reasonings sound logical, they can also be semi-assumptions which do not supersede science. I'm reminded of the first time I attended my 1st HIV AIDS 101 Training back in 2005...The trainer brought in a young 40-something year old woman to talk about her experience and being diagnosed with HIV. This women went on to tell her story- she had grown up with the mentality that she was going to save herself and stay a virgin until marriage. She graduated from college, still celibate, and afterwards met the man of her dreams. She married him and had three children. When she had her 3rd child, the doctor's informed her that her baby was HIV positive. The woman was flabbergasted. She didn't understand how that was possible, when she had only been with one man in her life. Later on she tested positive for HIV and so did her husband. She then went on to show everyone in the training all the different kinds of medication she had to take a day and how much her medication costs per year (over 20 g's a year.) Moral of the story: no one is immune, even those who practice conservative values, even those who are married, even those who have only one partner. No one is immune.

So before anyone spits out the typical phrases:
- "I'm married, I don't need to get tested."
- "I'm clean, and I know my partner's clean."
- "There's no way I could be have HIV, I just know."
- "He's a good person, I know he's negative."
- "She's an angel, of course she's doesn't have HIV."

Let's just throw all these lines out the window.
Let's make it habitual to be able to have these 'awkward' conversations with our partners.
Let's attempt to reprogram our minds to never assume anything.

Let's pass the knowledge, get tested...
or even better, why not get tested with your partner?

These actions/conversations can become as average as we want them to be.
It's the first step.

New York City: Thank you!

The New York premiere screening of Mangosteen: HIV/AIDS in Malaysia was a huge success! A big thank you goes out to MTV Networks Asian American Employee Affinity Group, Asian & Pacific Islander Coalition on HIV & AIDS (APICHA), Nissan Infinity, Sarah Fulton, Mary Jane San Buenavenatura, Darryll Harrison Jr, The Narra Group family and extended family and espeicially to the wonderful-supportive audience.

We were ecstatic to see the wide range of diversity within the audience. This definitely proved that there is an intelligent and aware "market" or "demographic" that is hungry to watch complex stories which are (1) driven by the community; (2) represent the diverse community and subject matter in the most authentic way possible; and (3) address complicated social and political issues in a multi dimensional story narrative.

This film would not have been possible without the generous support of the U.S. Embassy, USAID, Malaysian AIDS Council, and REACHLA. The Narra Group was fortunate to have an advanced compass of community organizations and government agencies who contributed to the completion of Mangosteen. The Narra Group's approach to filmmaking is a method that includes intense critical thinking and a formulated collaboration process when it comes to joining forces with community organizations and government agencies. We are proud to see our method come into fruition with the completion of Mangosteen.

Once again, we thank everyone from the bottom of our hearts for attending our New York premiere and we encourage you to leave comments on this blog on your thoughts about the film and the screening program.

More photos and commentary on the New York screening to come...

THANK YOU!

New York Premiere of Mangosteen: HIV/AIDS in Malaysia

The Narra Group (www.narragroup.com), in collaboration with MTV Networks Asian American Employee Affinity Group and Asian & Pacific Islander Coalition on HIV/AIDS (www.apicha.org), invites you and a guest to the New York premiere of their documentary film, "Mangosteen: HIV/AIDS in Malaysia" in celebration of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month.

The Narra Group traveled to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia through a joint collaboration between Narra, REACH LA (Los Angeles-based HIV/AIDS Education & Media Organization), the U.S. Embassy, and the Malaysian AIDS Council. Through the documentary film "Mangosteen", the filmmakers captured the interconnections between art, culture, politics, activism, advocacy, education, religion, and the rise of HIV/AIDS in Malaysia.

Seating is limited. Kindly RSVP to Sarah Fulton at (646) 637-7286 or Sarah.Fulton@mtvnmix.com

"Faith in Flux: Changes in Religious Affiliation in the U.S."

researchers from the Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life recently released this study on americans and religion-swapping.

the l.a. times points out this interesting fact:
In most cases, former Catholics who are now unaffiliated said they were dissatisfied with the church's teachings on abortion, homosexuality, birth control or treatment of women.

drum roll please...

Last weekend, our producer extraordinaire encouraged us to participate in the Annual Minority Women and Children AIDS walk coordinated by the African American Women Health and Education Foundation.

We have to admit that the walk was a lot more fun than we had expected. Luckily the talented band of John Muir High school (via Pasadena) set the right tone for us before we proceeded.
So please excuse the shaky video operation, but above is the video taken just as we began our walk. The funny pinoy who is getting his groove on in the beginning is actually one of our main narrators for the To and From documentary.

And speaking of tones, our approach to talking about the subject matter of To and From has us continuously massaging our minds. At this point in the project, our mouth piece (and how we use it) is crucial to the process of moving forward. It's funny because we seem to tweak our verbal description every time we talk about To and From aloud. What is being addressed in To and From relates to everyone, but there seems to be a conditioned state of mind in everyone's reactions once you say the word "HIV AIDS" out loud. We're figuring out that if we're really looking for systemic and cultural change regarding how this issue is perceived (which will hopefully result in lower rates of HIV AIDS infections in addition to increased awareness), then there has to be a serious step in the 're-branding' aspect of this social cause.

More on this to come...